What to Avoid while Communicating

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It was found that while conflict by itself may not be destructive to a relationship, certain communication patterns repeated and intensified over time could spell the deathblow to the relationship. Find out if you are the victim of any pattern and improve it now.

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narayanakudligi

what is this? merely outlining the symptoms is neither solution the relationship problems nor any diagnosis or treatment. What should be done under those circumstances? How to build up or repair relationships? What is the solution? Just vague article describing what's wrong. Not useful

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sairam1990

Thanks... could you please advise what form of communication can be used to discuss an issue?

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renuzzo

If these are to be avoided, then could you also advise what form of communication can be used to discuss an issue?

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geekyashish

nice and very useful

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kouasda

Awesome article, nicely described and explained. I took a print out of this and showed to my partner and the article helped me to rejuvenate the real picture and label our conversations against criticism, contempt, defensiveness, emotional flooding, stonewalling etc and we're now heading to great understanding and well mannered relationship and regain/recognized the respect for each other.

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vijayvictoria

Thank you for this article.